Archive for November 2011

An Alternative to Dating Online Washington DC

Dating Online Washington DC websites are set up to allow people from all over the District of Columbia, Maryland, and Northern Virginia communicate with each other with the intentions of dating.  Outside of these online web sites, the people who meet each other through them would probably never have the opportunity to do so.

For anyone who decides that this type of dating is for them, there are some very important online dating tips that they should consider.  Do not, ever, put any personally identifying information on your dating profile.  Also, never give out your full name, phone number, address, place of work, etc. in a personal message if someone asks for it.  There are many people on those sites that are predators who intend to hurt people.  That is why it is best to meet them in a public place if you decide to do so.  Then, you should be cautious of profiles that are not real.  Some dating sites make “dummy profiles” to encourage people to sign up for their site.  If people think there are a lot of people on a site, they are more likely to sign up for it.  There could even be real people who just are not who they claim to be.  They could post a profile from when they were in college (20 pounds lighter and with more hair) or say they have a job that they really do not, etc.

Since the Dating Online Washington DC thing is not really as secure as people should prefer, speed dating is the best alternative way to meet a lot of people who you normally would not meet in one night.  Pros in the City has at least one speed dating event every night of the week as well as other things to do for singles and single professionals in the Washington, D.C. area (including Baltimore and Arlington).   Instead of going on line to meet people (who may turn out to be someone else, or not “people” at all), go to a speed dating event.  Meeting people face to face is the best way to find out who they really are.  When people have to come up with something to say “on the spot”, they are more likely to say what they really mean.  Plus, you will be meeting in a public place which is safer than inviting someone into your home or entering into theirs.  Speed dating is cheaper than the average web dating membership anyway, so what do you have to lose? 

Post-Divorce Guilt – Is This Normal?

If you are feeling a lot of guilt over things that occurred within your marriage or find yourself pointing all the blame inward after the divorce, you may be wondering if you are normal. Post-divorce guilt can range from occasional thoughts and doubts about things that occurred during the marriage to intense self-blame and thoughts of guilt that can stand in the way of moving forward to a happier life.

In fact, if you are feeling intense guilt you may feel as if you don’t even deserve to be happy. After all, your actions or possibly lack of action led to the divorce and created misery for your ex and yourself, right? Why would you deserve to find someone wonderful and move on to another happy relationship?

If you find the guilt, regret, and self-blame interrupting your daily life, you are completely normal. Don’t think that no one else has ever felt this way and that you are some freak of nature dwelling on a broken relationship.

Many others have experienced post divorce guilt. In fact, the majority of new divorcees feel at least some degree of guilt in the short term. It is allowing that guilt to lock you in the past so you do not move forward that is unhealthy.

So, what do you do to move beyond the guilt and put the past behind you? This can be extremely difficult, especially if you have to continually see your ex in order to care for and share children. The following strategies have worked for many others and may be the key for you as well.

Choosing a Cb Radio

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The most important thing to understand when choosing a radio is that all CBs, regardless of their price, are limited to 4 watts of transmission power by the FCC. This means that a $50 bare-bones CB radio and a $200 chrome plated CB radio with every feature imaginable will have exactly the same transmission power. While a radio can be “peaked and tuned”, a process that increase a CB’s performance, all CB radios will have the same transmission power out of the box.

What primarily differentiates CB radios from each other is their features, not their output strength. CB radios come with a number of features, the most popular of which we’ve outlined below:

Squelch Control – This control sets the break-point at which a CB radio outputs a signal. In effect, it keeps the operator from constantly having to listen to static and only activates the speaker when a transmission is received. This is a standard feature and is included with nearly every CB radio sold.

RF Gain – Allows the operator to filter the type of transmission a CB radio receives based on signal strength. It’s useful to block out faint transmissions to eliminate background noise when talking with someone with a strong signal. This feature can also be used to pull-in and better hear weak signals.